Hidden Pain

Politics suppresses the problems of many post-abortive women

Her tears spilled from her cheeks as she told me the story of her abortion, some 11 years earlier. “Last fall, my husband put his arms around me from the back and whispered in my ear, ‘Our baby would have been 10 years old today,’ and we both cried,” she said as more tears came.

She was in for her first prenatal visit, excited about having her third child. As part of her obstetric history, I asked her about other pregnancies. She happily told of her two term pregnancies. But then I asked if she had experienced any miscarriages or abortions. I learned early in my career that woman generally don't mention abortions unless specifically asked. “Oh, yes, one abortion,” she said. Then I asked an open-ended question, the question that generated all the tears, simply, “How do you feel about that?”

“Oh, terrible. It's the biggest mistake I've ever made in my life,” she said. I've heard many other women use that exact phrase.

Click here to read the full article by Matt Anderson in this month's issue of WORLD Magazine. Embracing Option's PACE program offers full support and healing counsel for women who have suffered the after-effects abortion.

EO Volunteer Training

Care Net Volunteer Training Sessions

WHERE:

• EO @ HBI, 342 Arnett Blvd, Rochester, NY 14619
• EO @ GNOC, 916 N Goodman St, Rochester, NY 14609

WHEN:

• Thursday, July 23rd @ HBI, 5:30 pm – 9:30 pm
• Saturday, July 25th @ GNOC, 8 am – 1 pm
• Thursday, July 30th @ HBI, 5:30 pm – 9:30 pm
• Saturday, Aug. 8th @ GNOC, 8 am – 1 pm

** MUST COMPLETE ALL 4 TRAINING SESSIONS !! **

• Please bring your Bible to all the training sessions because we will be using them throughout the classes.
• A coffee break will be provided mid way through each class. You may want to bring a lunch/dinner to eat during that time.
• Suggested donation of $25.00 for training materials. If for any reason the donation will be a burden for you financially please contact one of our offices for scholarship. Thank you!

Click here for an application form. If you have any questions please call either Sandi Clawson Clawson at (585) 235-0690 or Kirsten Smith at (315) 524-8508. Thank you!

Pastoral Care, Mental Health

Bishop Orville Beckford and Bishop Herman Dailey discuss the benefits of training to recognize mental health problems.

His Branches has been hosting a monthly meeting of community pastors and mental health professionals from the University of Rochester Medical Center for the past four years. Recently City Newspaper ran an article about the program:

In the city's underserved African-American and Hispanic communities, ministers often encounter people suffering from serious mental health problems. And frequently, it's before anyone else, including family members and physicians, says Silvia Sorensen, a researcher in the University of Rochester's Department of Psychiatry.

"Ministers are faced with people who have mental health issues on a regular basis because of the work they do," says Sorensen. "And they don't necessarily have the training or background to recognize what's going on, or the information needed to refer people."

As part of the Department of Psychiatry's Aging Well Initiative, Sorensen developed a seminar in conjunction with the city's African-American faith community to help provide ministers, pastors, and lay counselors with the counseling tools they need.

Click here to read the entire article by Tim Louis Macaluso.

Stephen Series Workshop

On October 13, Saint Paul’s Episcopal Church in Rochester, NY will host a Stephen Series Caring Ministry Workshop from 8:30 am, to 1:00p.m., which will feature three sessions highlighting Stephen Ministry.

Is your congregation committed to lay ministry and caring ministry? Would 10 or 20 trained caregivers make a difference at your church? Experience a sample of the training Stephen Ministers receive, such as “Ministering to Those Experiencing Grief” and “How to Care in a Distinctively Christian Way.” Learn why more than 9,000 congregations representing more than 100 Christian denominations use the Stephen Series for training and organizing laypeople to do one-to-one caring ministry.

The cost of this workshop is $15 per person or $50 for a group of four or more from the same congregation. Put together a group from your congregation to attend this outstanding workshop. For more information or to register for this half-day Caring Ministry Workshop, call Stephen Ministries at (314) 428-2600 or click here to register online.